Your choices

The bad you see in other people is already in you. That is why you see it. The good you see is also in you before you can actually see it anywhere else. When you see others as ugly and inferior you’re actually showing the ugly and inferior within you. And, sooner or later, it will appear through your character and personality. Likewise, if you easily nourish thoughts of hate, worry, fear, doubt and suspicion, they’ll mar your mind and make you disagreeable in character and personality.It’s been said that if your character doesn’t have a sweetness that is attractive and likeable, it may have something that is repellent and disagreeable.